I've been thinking about homophobia lately, on account of "Christie"'s comment on
our review of Libba Bray's
The Sweet Far Thing, and "anonymous"'s comment on my
'Dumbledore is Gay' post. I'll copy-paste them both here:
Christie said...
Libba~ i loved the Rebel Angel book so much, but I was disapointed that you had to add the sex and homesexuality. Girls at this age are already so pressured by the world, they could use a really good book that doesn't tempt them. could you explain why you added that? Although, yes, I, as well as others, love (absolutely adore) Kartik. Thanks for writing these!Anonymous said...
You are SICK. So what if there are no gay characters in Harry Potter? So, you just make things up? I positively HATE people who make other sane people see their warped ideas and influence them. Go back where you belong, the mental hospital.I have problems with both of these comments, but let's address Christie's first.
First of all, she seems to be speaking directly to Libba Bray, even though this was just a review of her book. Libba Bray didn't write the post, Christie. I would suggest that if you'd like to say something to her, you leave a comment on
her blog, not ours.
Secondly, I understand why someone would have a problem with the (semi-implied) sex in
The Sweet Far Thing. Personally, I don't think that there's anything wrong with two people who are in love with one another having sex, whether they're married or not. But some people disagree, and I respect that. I don't, however, think that anyone was 'tempted' by reading
The Sweet Far Thing, but you never know.
The thing that I do have a problem with is the fact that Christy somehow objected to the homosexuality in the book. There is nothing wrong with being gay, and to imply that there is is, well, wrong. To hate, dislike, or even just disapprove of someone's sexual orientation is just as bad as racism, sexism, or a number of other -isms that I'm sure many homophobics would never dream of being. homophobia is a sign of ignorance and blind hate that should have no place anywhere, particularly at 3 Evil Cousins.
The second comment is another example, though anonymous was much more forceful than Christie.
My ideas are not warped. They are accepting. Also, I didn't make anything up, JK Rowling did. And I'll stay right here, thanks. Being someone who isn't filled with illogical, intolerant hate is not a sign of mental instability. I'm not the one who's sick.
I'm glad that so many prominent YA authors are including gay characters in their books-- Holly Black, Libba Bray, Maureen Johnson, and Cassandra Clare have done it, to name a few. It's realistic-- 10% of the population is gay, lesbian or bisexual, after all-- and it's breaking the glass ceiling, to use a feminist-movement metaphor. For so long, there have been almost no gay characters in popular entertainment-- not just books, but tv and movies. People are finally coming around, and frankly, it's refreshing. I feel sorry for anyone who doesn't like it, because that means that they have been taught to hate a group of people for no reason whatsoever.
Yours,